FemDomme Personal Trainer - Dominatrix "Whipping" you into shape

 We all know what we need to do, or should be doing, but getting started on actually doing it, or simply "sticking with the program" can be difficult, even for the most driven of U/us. 

We are really good at planning to go to the gym, but frequently fail to 'come through'. you need the right motivation to get in shape for this Goddess. My presence will undoubtedly support your weight loss or get fit regimen. 

Improving others just comes to me naturally. If I wasn't a professional Douchebag, I'd probably be a motivational speaker, a personal trainer, or a life coach; getting others "off their ass" is just something I am naturally good at.

{Stock Photo}

Besides this, I posses a great amount of "Common Sense." Do I really need to tell you that it is all about burning more calories than you consume. Every time I see an overweight person drinking diet soda, I really have to restrain Myself, not to yell at them: "How about trying it with water fat ass?"

Incorporating health goals into your life with Routines and Habits. My affinity for all types of uniforms, restraining attire, combat play and military games don't hurt either ;) 

Now get on the floor and give Me 20!

"Maid" to serve - Job Opening

 

Urgently wanted: New vacuum cleaner + properly dressed sissy maid to operate such dust sucking machine.

Be aware that eventually dust may not be the only thing you are sucking for Me...

 Job Description

• Perform general cleaning assignments in apartments, hallways and common areas
  
• Prepare apartments for session as assigned
• Participate in annual cleaning schedules
  
• Utilize cleaning chemicals properly and safely 
• Wash, dry, fold, iron laundry
• Drop off and pick up laundry
• Some grocery shopping and food preparation  
• "Handy-Man" tasks 
  

 Qualifications

*MUST HAVE OWN TRANSPORTATION*
Janitorial experience
Maid service experience
Floor cleaning/waxing experience
Window cleaning experience
Detail oriented
Friendly and positive attitude
Team player
Extremely reliable and dependable
Reliable transportation
Ability to provide and receive constructive feedback
Not afraid to get dirty

Strong need to serve and please Mistress
Must be able to stand for entire scheduled shift
Must be able to lift, bend, twist, reach, stretch, kneel, squat, push, pull, and lift up to 75 lbs.

Should have an advanced degree, M.A., M.S., J.D, MSW, M.D, Ph.D., or similar so I can have proper discourse with you while you are cleaning.

Please send an email to stern.leona@gmail.com to be considered

subject line must read: "Maid" to serve

email must include ALL of the following:

• 1 Head-shot, one vanilla full body picture (non-nude), and one picture of yourself dressed as a maid, if you have a proper uniform already.

• 2 references from Mistresses whom you have served in a domestic setting previously. These women will be contacted if I decide to consider you

•  Where you live, "Midtown" is not enough, you don't have to give Me cross streets, but at least a specific neighborhood.

• your general availability

Do not call about this position, as doing so will immediately disqualify you.  If you are lucky enough to receive a reply, be ready to go through a long screening process that may include several vanilla meetings and phone interviews. 

Also be financially stable as I may want you to purchase a proper sissy uniform of My liking, among other things needed for training you properly.

Another Sardax

 

 

SARDAX 

My favourite season!

The weather is beautiful! This is the perfect time to wear all My favorite sun-dresses, sky-high stilettos, and summer-hats.

In anticipation of My bi-annual European vacation, I am excited to enjoy a few more quality weeks in Manhattan.

How will you utilize this time to show Me that you are  capable, willing and worthy of taking your place underneath Me?

When I stopped waiting - and started leading

There was a moment in My life when I realized  no one is coming to safe Me and just hand Me My crown.

So I reached for it herself.

For Me, that moment arrived on an ordinary day in 2006 standing in line for coffee, hair in a messy knot, mentally juggling deadlines, errands, and the constant war of thoughts in My head.  At the time I caught my reflection in the window and saw someone who looked like she was waiting…for permission, for reassurance, for someone else to take the first step.

I didn’t like that version of Myself, too dependent, too insecure.  

So I made a decision to take action and then everything changed. 

That day, I made a quiet promise to Myself:

I’m done shrinking. I’m done making myself small - I am ready to take up space. To demand it. 

And then, beautifully and ruthlessly I  followed through.

I began speaking My mind never softening the edges.
Saying exactly what I wanted without apologizing for wanting it.
Choosing people who admired My strength instead of being threatened by it! 

And something interesting happened.

People responded.

When I walked into a room, conversations shifted. Not because I demanded the attention in that moment, but because I radiated the kind of certainty that makes others instinctively stand a little straighter. I became the woman whose opinions people asked for, whose confidence others tried to decode, whose presence created its own gravitational pull.

I didn’t need to force it.
I didn’t need to prove my self.
I simply was.

And the people in my life, ob friends, lovers, or even strangers,..they all began treating Me with a kind of reverence I’d never known before. 

And not the pedestal kind that traps you, but the genuine kind: the quiet admiration for a woman who leads with intention and doesn’t apologize for loving herself out loud.

I loved it.

Not because I needed to be worshipped, but because I had spent years underestimating just how deeply I deserved to be. The attention wasn’t the point, it was the reflection of the work I’d done, the energy I carried, the standards I began to  honor. 

I didn’t wait for respect.

I created it.

I didn’t hope for devotion.

I naturally inspired it.

And in the end, I didn’t just take charge of My life, I moved to New York and I became the kind of woman who makes “taking charge” look like an art form.

Fifty Shades, Soft Power + The Problem With Hollywood Kink

 Listening to how "Fifty Shades of Grey" was received by the mainstream just fascinates Me. The best use of the book I could ever find was holding My window open in the Bedroom for a nice steady draft...

Now, let's talk about that film- and NO - I did not watch it. I am shaking My head just thinking about it and writing about it. Hollywood loves their own idea of Dominance.  

Below is a piece where a professional dominatrix reviews Fifty Shades of Grey the Movie. It’s still oddly satisfying how much of the film collapses under real-world scrutiny, the wannbe technique, the hilarious contracts. It's just a strange fantasy of control with no reality to it.

What the movie gets right is aesthetics. What it misses is a proper method of discipline, real skill, and psychological presence that is vital for a D/s exchange. Kink isn’t props and mood lighting. The experience is about timing, restraint, and most importably knowing exactly when not to perform.

This article is worth a read, especially for anyone who still confuses fantasy with real lifestyle practice.

 

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Make Me feel like the Queen {that I am} Inbox

 

V-Day Countdown

I want thank everyone who thought of Me during the holidays. 2014 Christmas was the most spectacular yet! {If I have not personally reached out to you, feel free to nudge Me, remind Me, and point out to Me which gift you are responsible for (if you gifted anonymously).

 

 

 

 

It is great to see that My real FiFas are loyal and committed to making My life easier, more luxurious, and most importantly increasingly F*U*N =D. My interests have evolved over the years, but I always still adore Dress Up and Love Lights more than anything! 

 This morning I spend a couple hours dividing My wishlists into various sub-lists (no pun intended), including putting all My WANTED BOOKS on ONE LIST called "BOOK CLUB" =D.  Books are a great way to start discourse.

If you have been trying to get My attention without much success in the past, then  My Valentine's Day Wishlist is a great place to start. Make sure to include your email or phone number and your name in the "GIFT NOTE", and I may reach out to you to thank you personally. 

In 2015 I am hoping to UPGRADE My Photography and Video Game. Still need Software (Final Cut Pro) and a new laptop (MacBookAir, as My MACPRO is too heavy to carry anywhere). Also looking forward to receiving all the outfits from My Lingerie and Pantyhose Wishlist, which has been particularly popular with My cuckolds.  

 

Just imagine how fabulous I would look in any of these: 

 

 

 

 V-Day is in a little over two weeks, let the scanty outfits roll in!!! 

you Don’t “Choose” Me. you Prove yourself to Me.

There’s a misconception floating around that I’m supposed to pitch myself to subs.  As if I’m here to audition. As if I’m the one trying to impress.

Let’s be clear: you got it backwards. That would defeat the entire purpose. I have nothing to prove. I am not the one that’s here to chase. Persuading you of anything is not My aim. 

If you want to serve me, you are the one who makes your intentions clear with clarity  I love clarity  

Don’t bore Me with your self serving fantasies, stop with those ridiculous copy‑pasted messages about how “obedient” you are. 

I need to see actual effort.

Because serving Me isn’t a right, it’s a privilege.
And privileges are earned. To get in My good graces you present who you are, what you offer, what you can sustain, and why you think you’re worth my time.

It’s your job to demonstrate how you will deliver real value. How you will demonstrate that you’re capable of receiving my time and presence without wasting it.

If that feels intimidating, good.
It should.

This isn’t a girl-next-door roleplay where I pat you on the head just for showing up.  I seek a deeper and more authentic power exchange built on intention, respect, and a dynamic you have to grow into, not one I hand out like samples at a grocery store.

I don’t beg for attention. I don’t compete. I don’t convince.

You step forward. 

You offer yourself. 

You beg. 

You hope. 

You wait.

If I choose you, it’s because you’ve shown me consistency, sincerity, and substance, not because you “want” it.

And if that sounds harsh, you’re not ready to serve someone of My caliber anyway.