Friday, March 6, 2015

Fifty Shades, Soft Power + The Problem With Hollywood Kink

 Listening to how "Fifty Shades of Grey" was received by the mainstream just fascinates Me. The best use of the book I could ever find was holding My window open in the Bedroom for a nice steady draft...

Now, let's talk about that film- and NO - I did not watch it. I am shaking My head just thinking about it and writing about it. Hollywood loves their own idea of Dominance.  

Below is a piece where a professional dominatrix reviews Fifty Shades of Grey the Movie. It’s still oddly satisfying how much of the film collapses under real-world scrutiny, the wannbe technique, the hilarious contracts. It's just a strange fantasy of control with no reality to it.

What the movie gets right is aesthetics. What it misses is a proper method of discipline, real skill, and psychological presence that is vital for a D/s exchange. Kink isn’t props and mood lighting. The experience is about timing, restraint, and most importably knowing exactly when not to perform.

This article is worth a read, especially for anyone who still confuses fantasy with real lifestyle practice.

 

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