A friend recently suggested that I should “build My FemDom brand” on “perceived value.” Basically Fake demand. Fake scarcity. Fake exclusivity. Pretend you’re too busy, too desired, too overwhelmed…So I’m supposed to manufacture an aura of unattainability so people think I’m worth more. Honestly? Pfui. I’m allergic to that kind of performance. If a sub has to be tricked into seeing My worth, then that’s not the right one for Me to begin with.
Perceived value works for products, like selling handbags or pushing overpriced skincare, but not for cultivating a genuine power FemDom dynamic. The whole concept is built on insecurity: “If I pretend I’m rare, maybe they’ll treat me like I’m valuable.” But I don’t operate from scarcity. I don’t need smoke and mirrors. My value comes from who I am, not what I desperately pretend to be. That’s real value - it is felt, not advertised.
The subs who chase perceived value aren’t looking for a Domme; they’re looking for a status symbol. They want the illusion of access, not the intimacy of true devotion. The ones who understand real power, the ones who genuinely crave depth, structure, and surrender, those rare subs don’t fall for phony wannabes. They gravitate toward authenticity, not performance. They can sense genuine confidence and emotional intelligence.
I want the kind of connection that deepens, not the kind that needs constant inflation to stay afloat. Real value stands on its own, steady and undeniable. If someone can’t recognize that without a marketing trick, they’re not meant for me. I don’t need to pretend to be rare I am rare. And the right sub will know it instantly.
