OPEN (to the public?)

When picking submissives I’ve always practiced a certain level of discernment. For Me being truly powerful as a FemDom has always meant the ability to be truly selective.My door has never been just “open to the public.”

Never has, never will be. I’ve always enjoyed being more of an ‘underground dominatrix’  a hidden secret. Operating from a speakeasy Dungeon…

 

There’s this myth that if someone doesn’t see a ProDom posting actively, it means She has  disappeared, left the scene, retired, or somehow stopped existing.

Meanwhile, I’ve now had the same three men kneeling at my feet for more than a decade.

No need for announcements, ads or reminders. 

They’ve always reached out to Me and I was always happy to arrange a meeting when possible. They know I have a life and commitments beyond the FemDom lifestyle  

It’s powerful when subs  just show up  consistently, quietly, respectfully.

Not everyone gets access to this type of arrangement. And that’s the point.

Brief but very informative Podcast wiht a Dominatrix.

Listening to Clarity Mills on Newstalk’s Lunchtime Live reminded me how kink is often misunderstood. Many assume it’s all about sex, but at its core, BDSM and alternative lifestyles is really about power exchange.

As the Woman on the podcast explains, sometimes Dominatrix work is a way to process past trauma or decompress from life’s pressures. I see this in My day-to-day work, a lot of men who are in leadership position and in control all the time. Those are the usual subjects that just love kneeling before a loving female Authority ready to take the lead. 

She also mentioned Ireland has come a long way in a short time, and it’s fascinating to see how generational shifts influence openness to sexual expression.

 

 

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