FORCE

Someone who is truly powerful, ie someone who understands control and can handle it responsibly, never has to force submission. The moment you start pressuring, or convincing someone into submission, you’ve already lost your power. That isn’t dominance. That isn’t leadership. It’s insecurity wearing a cheap and probably fake leather jacket. Real dominance is never about coercion. It’s about creating an environment where surrender feels safe, and desired.

Surrender must come from the sub. Full stop. It has to rise from inside them, out of trust, admiration, connection, most importantly the real desire to give themselves freely. If a Dom tries to yank that out of someone or demand, then they are showing their own fear of being inept to accept another persons agency. Forced submission isn’t submission; it’s posturing. And the energy behind that kind of posturing is laughable, desperate, and not powerful.

I don’t “make subs do things.” They do them because they feel safe with Me and trust Me. They choose devotion.  The men who serve Me do so because the dynamic feels right, not because I intimidate them into obedience. Real power creates voluntary devotion. Anything else is noise.

A Domme who demands submission instead of inspiring it is not someone a sub can relax into. Safety is the foundation of true surrender, and safety comes from steady leadership, emotional intelligence, and consistent integrity. Power isn’t loud or forceful, it’s calm, grounded, and unmistakable. The ones who understand this cultivate real, lasting devotion. The ones who don’t are simply playing dress-up.